Understand before you commit.
You each answer four short levels on your own. Kindred shows where you overlap and what is worth talking about.
Slower, on purpose.
No feed to scroll and nothing to swipe. Kindred moves at the pace of a real decision, one step at a time.
- 01
Set up with care
Verify with a selfie and an official ID, add photos, and answer a few questions about how you think and what matters most.
- 02
Three a day
At 9am, meet three people who fit your preferences. No names, photos blurred. Saying yes is private.
- 03
Four levels, together
When you both say yes, you answer four short levels on your own. Each one unlocks more of each other.
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Decide, with family close
Read where you overlap, talk it through, and bring your wali along if you would like.
Three to consider. New at 9am.
Each morning Kindred introduces three people who fit what you are looking for, and whose own preferences include you. When they are gone, they are gone until tomorrow.
Faces come later
Photos stay blurred until you both finish Level 1. You start with how someone thinks, not how they look.
Where you already align
Instead of a name, each card shows age, city, a short bio and the areas where the two of you line up.
Yes stays between you
If they say yes too, you match and Level 1 opens. If not, nobody ever knows you asked.
Get to know each other one level at a time.
After a match you each answer four short levels on your own. Every level you finish together opens a little more: photos, then names and chat, then the full profile.
No two matches get the same questions.
For every level, five specialists, one per area, read their research and write questions for you, building on your earlier answers. It usually takes under a minute.
- Gottman · conflict and repair
- PREPARE/ENRICH · values
- Hazan & Shaver · attachment
- Big Five · emotional steadiness
- Karney & Bradbury · life stress
See where you overlap.
After each level, Kindred reads both sets of answers across five areas and shows you both the same picture: what lines up, and what is worth talking about. Your match never sees your answers, only the shared read.
“You share the big things, with family close to the centre for both of you. How you handle disagreements is worth talking through.”
You repair in different ways
Conflict style · GottmanFamily comes first for both of you
Values · PREPARE/ENRICHYou lean on each other in similar ways
Temperament · Hazan & ShaverCalm under pressure
Communication · Big FiveDifferent pictures of home
Lifestyle · Karney & Bradbury- What helps you feel heard when we disagree? Ask them →
- If money got tight for a year, what would you cut first? Ask them →
A conversation starter, not a prediction. Based on research by Gottman, PREPARE/ENRICH, attachment, Big Five and Karney-Bradbury.
Who you meet is up to you.
Choose where they live, their faith and an age range. Change them any time from your profile, and tomorrow’s introductions follow.
Matching works both ways. You only see people who fit your preferences, and whose own preferences include you.
Private until you both choose.
Every default is set for dignity and control. You decide what opens, and when.
Blurred until Level 1
Matches see your photos blurred until you both finish Level 1. You always see your own clearly.
Names after Level 2
Discovery shows age and city only. Names appear and chat opens once you both finish Level 2.
Checked by a person
A two-pose selfie and an official ID, reviewed by our team. Neither is ever shown on your profile.
Your answers stay yours
Your match never sees what you answered, only the shared read you both get.
Women can go first
Turn on Women initiate only and you send the first message once chat opens. Your match replies after you.
Contact details stay hidden
Phone numbers, emails and links are hidden in chat until you both finish all four levels.
Bring your family along, on your terms.
Invite one wali you trust. They can follow your levels and shared reads, and see your match’s photo, name and bio once those open. They never see your answers or your chats.
Remove a wali any time. Their access ends immediately.
Nusrat’s matches
Built to be left.
Kindred is built for serious relationships. We would rather you skip us than waste your time.
Nothing to binge
Three introductions a day, then the tray is done until 9am tomorrow.
A reflection, not a verdict
Reads start conversations. They never decide for you.
Grounded in research
Every area traces back to published work on conflict, values, attachment, personality and life stress.
Your data is yours
We never sell your data, and you can delete everything at any time.
Bring intention back to how you meet.
Kindred is opening slowly, a few people at a time. Join the beta and we will let you know when your invite is ready.